Friday, 27 March 2015

Brilliant Things and Annoying things!



So really i should be in bed but i am pretty annoyed right now.

I have had a really nice day today, the sun has been shining, its a nice spring day, i went to work feeling great. Today was the day i was training to be a Arts Award Assistant Adviser. Okay may sound a little boring, but i was the be first in the world of hopefully many people, to be trained as an Assistant Adviser. Like that is a big thing! Not only that but a friend came in with a proposed gig thing for us and we booked it in and everything for June! So everything was going great, until i got home and i had a message saying two people i didn't talk to anymore were causing trouble and trying to get 'infomation' about me from people.

I shall start from the beginning.
So i got on the bus last wedensday, as i was on the bus, two stops later, two girls got on the bus too. These two girls used to be my friend around 2 years ago. We ended up having a argument and falling out over something so pathetic but it was practically them bullying me.

What happened was, 2 years ago....
I had a profile on Ask.fm, and i started to get questions from an anonymous person asking me questions such as 'what was your best relationship.' for example.
At the time, i was still getting over my Ex. The longest relationship i'd had and first love. Those kind of relationships you do not just get over. So at the time, when i got asked this question, i simply replied with 'My best relationship was the same as my worst.' Because my relationship with my ex was very bad and toxic.
Anyways a few days later, my first friend, we will call her A,  messaged me on Facebook, asking me WHY i had answered that to the question. I told her why and she got pissed off with me because i still had feelings for my ex basically and then in the end we argued and she called me a moody and all that and i blocked her. The rest of the day i had her friend, we will name her B, texting me and having a go at me about it all also.

In the end it calmed down, but i started getting more anonymous questions on Ask,Fm, this time nasty ones, digging me for my sexuality, calling me names, generally being horrible to me. It was basically bullying. I basically made it clear in my replies that i was A and B who were probably doing it and it was shitty to do.

The next day, i got a phone called from a private number. It turned out to be A and B asking me why i had accused them on Ask,Fm and then started calling me names including calling me 'goofy bitch' ect; Then i hung up, and that was the end of our friendship.

Two years later, i was on the bus a week ago on wedensday like i previously said, and A and B got on the bus too, they strutted on with a attitude and nothing happened for the bus journey. They got off a couple of bus stops before me and they stopped at traffic lights and the bus was going to drive past, it was arkward as i was sitting on the side of the bus which passed where they were standing.

I saw A look at me and then look at B almost as if she said something. I just got a sense that they were still just as immature and mean as they were back then. I ended up making a status on facebook basically just saying 'when people are still immature after 2 years.' And then a couple friends asked who it was about and that same day i just deleted the status because i had got over it and i wasn't bothered anymore.

My facebook is connected with my Twitter account and my statues sometimes come up as tweets too automatically and i didn't realise and the status i had made ended up on twitter also.
Now realisticly it shouldn't matter as i haven't spoke to A and B for two years so they wouldn't and shouldn't be sneaking around looking at my profile right? No i was apparently wrong.
As today (ONE WEEK LATER) they have decided to bring up i have made a status. And have called me pathetic, immature, ect; and keep tweeting trying to start an argument with me and its rather annoying. I don't understand why they have to? I feel they are being hypocrites when they call me sad and pathetic and tell me i am an attension seeker as they are the ones trying to start an argument with me a WEEK after i even made the status. And in all fairness it could of been about anyone, and why were they snooping on my profile?!


People -.- Am i in the wrong or? haha.

5 comments:

  1. You should just ignore those type of people. I mean 2 years later and still acting that way, that's kinda immature. anyways hope you're alright :)

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  2. Hey. First of all congratulations for your award and also for that training. :) It's really a great thing that at this age you're on your own feet.
    Second, I have a little advice for you, if you don't mind. :) Don't let anyone bully you, okay. :) It's a good thing that you're open about your sexuality. There are many people afraid of this. :) Be proud of who you are. But, maybe it wasn't A and B. Because ask.fm doesn't really give you the names, right? :) Anyway the harm is done. And maybe they're the ones who were bullying you. But, you didn't have to take that bullying. :) Don't answer such questions, come on. :) And even if you do, come up with something witty. :D It's good that you wrote whatever you felt by writing this post, but don't post things like this on fb. :) What I mean is, they're other so called "friends" who might use this against you. You never know. :) I'm sorry if this was too much. It's just that I consider you as a great friend. :)

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    1. Thanks Vani! You are totally correct!! :D Sorry for the late reply :) I am struggling recently with words to write in my blog so i havent made a new post in a while D;

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  3. It's not a problem. :) And it's okay, no need to be sorry about that. :) I'm glad you understood my point. :D

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