I want to write down what happens in my life, so later on i can look back and see my progress. Sometimes it is a nice thing to see how far you have came in life. You may feel low right now, or things may be going wrong, but it will always get better.
Friday, 27 March 2015
Brilliant Things and Annoying things!
So really i should be in bed but i am pretty annoyed right now.
I have had a really nice day today, the sun has been shining, its a nice spring day, i went to work feeling great. Today was the day i was training to be a Arts Award Assistant Adviser. Okay may sound a little boring, but i was the be first in the world of hopefully many people, to be trained as an Assistant Adviser. Like that is a big thing! Not only that but a friend came in with a proposed gig thing for us and we booked it in and everything for June! So everything was going great, until i got home and i had a message saying two people i didn't talk to anymore were causing trouble and trying to get 'infomation' about me from people.
I shall start from the beginning.
So i got on the bus last wedensday, as i was on the bus, two stops later, two girls got on the bus too. These two girls used to be my friend around 2 years ago. We ended up having a argument and falling out over something so pathetic but it was practically them bullying me.
What happened was, 2 years ago....
I had a profile on Ask.fm, and i started to get questions from an anonymous person asking me questions such as 'what was your best relationship.' for example.
At the time, i was still getting over my Ex. The longest relationship i'd had and first love. Those kind of relationships you do not just get over. So at the time, when i got asked this question, i simply replied with 'My best relationship was the same as my worst.' Because my relationship with my ex was very bad and toxic.
Anyways a few days later, my first friend, we will call her A, messaged me on Facebook, asking me WHY i had answered that to the question. I told her why and she got pissed off with me because i still had feelings for my ex basically and then in the end we argued and she called me a moody and all that and i blocked her. The rest of the day i had her friend, we will name her B, texting me and having a go at me about it all also.
In the end it calmed down, but i started getting more anonymous questions on Ask,Fm, this time nasty ones, digging me for my sexuality, calling me names, generally being horrible to me. It was basically bullying. I basically made it clear in my replies that i was A and B who were probably doing it and it was shitty to do.
The next day, i got a phone called from a private number. It turned out to be A and B asking me why i had accused them on Ask,Fm and then started calling me names including calling me 'goofy bitch' ect; Then i hung up, and that was the end of our friendship.
Two years later, i was on the bus a week ago on wedensday like i previously said, and A and B got on the bus too, they strutted on with a attitude and nothing happened for the bus journey. They got off a couple of bus stops before me and they stopped at traffic lights and the bus was going to drive past, it was arkward as i was sitting on the side of the bus which passed where they were standing.
I saw A look at me and then look at B almost as if she said something. I just got a sense that they were still just as immature and mean as they were back then. I ended up making a status on facebook basically just saying 'when people are still immature after 2 years.' And then a couple friends asked who it was about and that same day i just deleted the status because i had got over it and i wasn't bothered anymore.
My facebook is connected with my Twitter account and my statues sometimes come up as tweets too automatically and i didn't realise and the status i had made ended up on twitter also.
Now realisticly it shouldn't matter as i haven't spoke to A and B for two years so they wouldn't and shouldn't be sneaking around looking at my profile right? No i was apparently wrong.
As today (ONE WEEK LATER) they have decided to bring up i have made a status. And have called me pathetic, immature, ect; and keep tweeting trying to start an argument with me and its rather annoying. I don't understand why they have to? I feel they are being hypocrites when they call me sad and pathetic and tell me i am an attension seeker as they are the ones trying to start an argument with me a WEEK after i even made the status. And in all fairness it could of been about anyone, and why were they snooping on my profile?!
People -.- Am i in the wrong or? haha.
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You should just ignore those type of people. I mean 2 years later and still acting that way, that's kinda immature. anyways hope you're alright :)
ReplyDeleteI know right! haha! Thank you :)
DeleteHey. First of all congratulations for your award and also for that training. :) It's really a great thing that at this age you're on your own feet.
ReplyDeleteSecond, I have a little advice for you, if you don't mind. :) Don't let anyone bully you, okay. :) It's a good thing that you're open about your sexuality. There are many people afraid of this. :) Be proud of who you are. But, maybe it wasn't A and B. Because ask.fm doesn't really give you the names, right? :) Anyway the harm is done. And maybe they're the ones who were bullying you. But, you didn't have to take that bullying. :) Don't answer such questions, come on. :) And even if you do, come up with something witty. :D It's good that you wrote whatever you felt by writing this post, but don't post things like this on fb. :) What I mean is, they're other so called "friends" who might use this against you. You never know. :) I'm sorry if this was too much. It's just that I consider you as a great friend. :)
Thanks Vani! You are totally correct!! :D Sorry for the late reply :) I am struggling recently with words to write in my blog so i havent made a new post in a while D;
DeleteIt's not a problem. :) And it's okay, no need to be sorry about that. :) I'm glad you understood my point. :D
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